21. August, 2004
I've been officially approved to leave this place on November 20th! That is the big news.
The boredom of this summer has finally started to get to me. I had another case of food poisoning this week, from food I ate in Talas. I'm feel very out of patience with these small trials and don't want to read another book. I'm also surprised at how impatient I feel- at this late stage in the game, you'd think I'd be all adjusted and more tolerant, rather than out of temper! It took two hours to get to Megan's, which is a usual amount of time for the trip, but I do think it is not a normal amount of time to travel just to visit one's friend. A manager from Peace Corps was here this week, and she traveled from my village to Megan's village in just thirty minutes! That means that I am spending an hour and a half sitting in a taxi waiting for it to fill up so I can leave. I also came to Megan's on the WRONG DAY OF THE WEEK. I had FORGOTTEN what day of the week it was, and came a day late! You see how out of it I am.
Three women came to my village from the "Global Program," which I think is UNICEF funded program. It does seminars on teaching techniques for teachers throughout Kyrgyzstan, and sends teachers to Bishkek. It's very popular because they give out free stuff to schools, and the teachers love to be involved, at least in part because they get to go to Bishkek for these seminars, travel to which they get reimbursed for. Rosa said that all the participants fleeced the program by grossly inflating their travel costs and pocketing the reimbursements for hotels, meals, etc. I can't say I blame them but it is another reason to ponder the cost-effectiveness of aid programs! Anyway, two of the women were Russian, and the third was Kyrgyz. Rosa hosted them for three days while they conducted seminars throughout the oblast. She invited me over one night, too. I helped with preparation a little. Nuria, another one of my favorite teachers came to help, too, so that part was fun. They were very merry, and they didn't even drink that much. It was strange to see tham all speaking Russian. I'd never heard anyone speak Russian except Rosa, during my lessons. I only lasted six hours that night. Rosa didn't go to bed all night! We talked about it the next day. She talked about how much she loves speaking Russian- she says she can express herself better- and how much she loved having these Russian women at her house. I wish you could meet her!
I've been teaching everyday my typing course. It's not very interesting for me because the kids can work through the lessons on their own, but those involved really enjoy it and want to work for hours. So I know that's good. Some teachers gave it a try, too, which was funny. I saw how much easier it is for the children to learn, compared to the teachers. They all tried to argue that it's much faster to hunt an peck rather than learn the hand positions. It was funny to see them so unsure of themselves.
I've been officially approved to leave this place on November 20th! That is the big news.
The boredom of this summer has finally started to get to me. I had another case of food poisoning this week, from food I ate in Talas. I'm feel very out of patience with these small trials and don't want to read another book. I'm also surprised at how impatient I feel- at this late stage in the game, you'd think I'd be all adjusted and more tolerant, rather than out of temper! It took two hours to get to Megan's, which is a usual amount of time for the trip, but I do think it is not a normal amount of time to travel just to visit one's friend. A manager from Peace Corps was here this week, and she traveled from my village to Megan's village in just thirty minutes! That means that I am spending an hour and a half sitting in a taxi waiting for it to fill up so I can leave. I also came to Megan's on the WRONG DAY OF THE WEEK. I had FORGOTTEN what day of the week it was, and came a day late! You see how out of it I am.
Three women came to my village from the "Global Program," which I think is UNICEF funded program. It does seminars on teaching techniques for teachers throughout Kyrgyzstan, and sends teachers to Bishkek. It's very popular because they give out free stuff to schools, and the teachers love to be involved, at least in part because they get to go to Bishkek for these seminars, travel to which they get reimbursed for. Rosa said that all the participants fleeced the program by grossly inflating their travel costs and pocketing the reimbursements for hotels, meals, etc. I can't say I blame them but it is another reason to ponder the cost-effectiveness of aid programs! Anyway, two of the women were Russian, and the third was Kyrgyz. Rosa hosted them for three days while they conducted seminars throughout the oblast. She invited me over one night, too. I helped with preparation a little. Nuria, another one of my favorite teachers came to help, too, so that part was fun. They were very merry, and they didn't even drink that much. It was strange to see tham all speaking Russian. I'd never heard anyone speak Russian except Rosa, during my lessons. I only lasted six hours that night. Rosa didn't go to bed all night! We talked about it the next day. She talked about how much she loves speaking Russian- she says she can express herself better- and how much she loved having these Russian women at her house. I wish you could meet her!
I've been teaching everyday my typing course. It's not very interesting for me because the kids can work through the lessons on their own, but those involved really enjoy it and want to work for hours. So I know that's good. Some teachers gave it a try, too, which was funny. I saw how much easier it is for the children to learn, compared to the teachers. They all tried to argue that it's much faster to hunt an peck rather than learn the hand positions. It was funny to see them so unsure of themselves.
5. August, 2004
Am having a lovely time in Bishkek- purchased some more books for school, and am
researching if it would be possible to come home by boat. Container ships have
room for 10-20 passengers and it's pretty cheap. cool, huh? I just spent three days
in Naryn Oblast, and we went to Song Kul, one of the biggest high altitude lakes
in the world. We (Karen, the woman I went to Uzbekistan with, and two other
volunteers from Naryn) slept in a yurt. It was fun, except that it was COLD, as
in it froze at night, and it rained about a third of the time. On our one longer
hike, we got hailed on three times. That's OK, this is the stuff of which legends
are made... It took 13 hours to get from Talas to Naryn, but the trip from Bishkek
to Naryn was fun. I sat in the front seat of the "taxi", with a man and his wife and
another female passenger and two young boys and lots of goods for the driver's store
in Naryn. I sat next to an enormous block of smelly cheese, and they had strapped
boxes of frozen chicken (food aid from the US that gets resold here) to the roof, so
there were lots of jokes about how the chickens were cleaning the car (melting
chicken juice coming in through the windows. yummy.) They were friendly- we stopped
to drink fermented horse milk at a road side stop. I definitely made a yucky face,
but that didn't stop them from wanting me to drink more. Apparently, it cleans your
system of "radiation." Right.
The yurt place at song kul had tourists, Germans, French, a Czech couple and a big
bus full of Dutch people who kept putting up more and more and more tents. We were
spread over a large space. I saw yaks and wild horses, and had a bath in the COLD
lake. I had an excellent time with the other volunteers and other travelers. On the
way back from Naryn I communicated with a Chinese man who had just crossed over the
Torugard pass- it was somehow a very moving experience, but I'll write about it later.
26. July, 2004
Today is the “jildik” of Azimkan’s mother. It’s the sixth anniversary of her death. I understand that if your relative lived well, you have to honor his/her memory by showing all your neighbors that you are doing well. They slaughtered a sheep, invited all the neighbors and relatives, and someone came to recite something from the Koran. Last night Keshimjan, Chinara, and I made some kattama, which is a special kind of bread made of very finely rolled layers of dough and oil. It’s yummy, in a greasy way. I gave myself a nice blistery grease burn on my palm.
In another stunning example of my capacity to integrate into Kyrgyz life, I spent most of the afternoon hiding in my locked room from the jildik. I have tried to do better at these things, but really, I go out to sit with all these strangers, or even people I’ve met numerous times, and no one talks to me except to urge me to eat more vile boiled grisly fatty sheep parts. (I know this is heresy against the doctrine of cross-cultural respect.) I didn’t escape soon enough. One man knocked at my door and asked if he could come in to my room and talk to me. It turned out he is Azimkan’s youngest brother Azamat from Bishkek, but when knocking at my door he didn’t explain this to me, so I was less than gracious to him. He was one of those who continues to speak Russian to me after multiple attempts, in Kyrgyz, to say that I do know Kyrgyz. He came in and promptly become too nervous to talk, so got rude and critical instead. After I finally got rid of him, I went outside for a minute and let my host mother, Keshimjan, invite me into the zal (the room with the party food laid out- most of the guests were still in the other room.) to sample the watermelon- she really does try to do her best by me. I tried to escape to my room before the beshbarmak was served up, but I hadn’t locked my door (I feel unfriendly locking my bedroom door behind me) and found an ancient female relative in the process of dismantling my bedclothes to use my blanket as prayer mat. She’s come to the house before; she’s the only Kyrgyz person I have ever encountered who prays to Mecca five times a day. By this point they were about to serve the sheep, and I was busy hiding my flip-flops so that the guests would stop borrowing them to go to the outhouse with, and waiting for the woman to finish praying on my blanket so I could lock up my room again, friendly or not… random passersby carrying plates of sheep flesh commanded me to the zal to eat, while Keshimjan informed them all that she would serve me my own plate in my room, foreign antisocial freak that I am (my words not hers!). So I got my own platter of sheep boiled grisly fatty sheep parts, thanks mom, but my room was still occupied by the Devout Muslim, so I sat down with my sheep in the TV room, where I was unfortunately joined by Azamat. He made the predicable comments about my being left-handed (implied- freak!) and why wasn’t I digging into my meat? I admitted total defeat, and escaped back into an earplug-sedated nap in my re-secured room. Ho hum. Yesss, cultural integration. Only 128 days left, but who’s counting….
To redeem myself a little- it is nice to have Chinara home. We chat and I am more tuned into what is going on with the family. Another perk is that she makes good food and it is served at normal times of day. She has gone to Issyk-Kol. It’s the first time in her life! Her parents almost didn’t let her go. She’ll only be gone for 3 days, but at least she’ll see the thing.
Computer/English club is going along swimmingly. Today we had to switch to English club earlier than planned, not because the electricity went out (the usual reason), but because of a wiring problem. The computer is hooked up to a power strip, but the power strip is connected to a pair of improvised wires, which are wrapped around the prongs of the cord and attached the ca. 1985 USSR power source. This electrocution hazard became a little loose today, and you could see the electricity buzzing at the place where the wires were attached.
Two of my boys are going to a boys state camp in Jalal-Abad next week. The organizers came up with some extra places, so I got to invite one more boy, Yusup, whose application had originally been turned down. I got to tell him today that he can go. That was a lovely piece of news to get to pass along.
Yusup (smiling like the sunshine): “Thank you, teacher, for the best news!”
Today is the “jildik” of Azimkan’s mother. It’s the sixth anniversary of her death. I understand that if your relative lived well, you have to honor his/her memory by showing all your neighbors that you are doing well. They slaughtered a sheep, invited all the neighbors and relatives, and someone came to recite something from the Koran. Last night Keshimjan, Chinara, and I made some kattama, which is a special kind of bread made of very finely rolled layers of dough and oil. It’s yummy, in a greasy way. I gave myself a nice blistery grease burn on my palm.
In another stunning example of my capacity to integrate into Kyrgyz life, I spent most of the afternoon hiding in my locked room from the jildik. I have tried to do better at these things, but really, I go out to sit with all these strangers, or even people I’ve met numerous times, and no one talks to me except to urge me to eat more vile boiled grisly fatty sheep parts. (I know this is heresy against the doctrine of cross-cultural respect.) I didn’t escape soon enough. One man knocked at my door and asked if he could come in to my room and talk to me. It turned out he is Azimkan’s youngest brother Azamat from Bishkek, but when knocking at my door he didn’t explain this to me, so I was less than gracious to him. He was one of those who continues to speak Russian to me after multiple attempts, in Kyrgyz, to say that I do know Kyrgyz. He came in and promptly become too nervous to talk, so got rude and critical instead. After I finally got rid of him, I went outside for a minute and let my host mother, Keshimjan, invite me into the zal (the room with the party food laid out- most of the guests were still in the other room.) to sample the watermelon- she really does try to do her best by me. I tried to escape to my room before the beshbarmak was served up, but I hadn’t locked my door (I feel unfriendly locking my bedroom door behind me) and found an ancient female relative in the process of dismantling my bedclothes to use my blanket as prayer mat. She’s come to the house before; she’s the only Kyrgyz person I have ever encountered who prays to Mecca five times a day. By this point they were about to serve the sheep, and I was busy hiding my flip-flops so that the guests would stop borrowing them to go to the outhouse with, and waiting for the woman to finish praying on my blanket so I could lock up my room again, friendly or not… random passersby carrying plates of sheep flesh commanded me to the zal to eat, while Keshimjan informed them all that she would serve me my own plate in my room, foreign antisocial freak that I am (my words not hers!). So I got my own platter of sheep boiled grisly fatty sheep parts, thanks mom, but my room was still occupied by the Devout Muslim, so I sat down with my sheep in the TV room, where I was unfortunately joined by Azamat. He made the predicable comments about my being left-handed (implied- freak!) and why wasn’t I digging into my meat? I admitted total defeat, and escaped back into an earplug-sedated nap in my re-secured room. Ho hum. Yesss, cultural integration. Only 128 days left, but who’s counting….
To redeem myself a little- it is nice to have Chinara home. We chat and I am more tuned into what is going on with the family. Another perk is that she makes good food and it is served at normal times of day. She has gone to Issyk-Kol. It’s the first time in her life! Her parents almost didn’t let her go. She’ll only be gone for 3 days, but at least she’ll see the thing.
Computer/English club is going along swimmingly. Today we had to switch to English club earlier than planned, not because the electricity went out (the usual reason), but because of a wiring problem. The computer is hooked up to a power strip, but the power strip is connected to a pair of improvised wires, which are wrapped around the prongs of the cord and attached the ca. 1985 USSR power source. This electrocution hazard became a little loose today, and you could see the electricity buzzing at the place where the wires were attached.
Two of my boys are going to a boys state camp in Jalal-Abad next week. The organizers came up with some extra places, so I got to invite one more boy, Yusup, whose application had originally been turned down. I got to tell him today that he can go. That was a lovely piece of news to get to pass along.
Yusup (smiling like the sunshine): “Thank you, teacher, for the best news!”
